釋放壓力，走出憂鬱

我知道你是個堅持、固執的人，壓力正是堅持理想下所帶來的副作用。我很高興你可以說出來你現在背負的壓力，我很希望可以陪在你身邊陪你度過這些堅持，不過目前我能做的就是用電話跟你談談天，聊聊生活上的新鮮事，希望你可以開心點。

證嚴上人開示：「前腳踏出去，後腳要放掉，才能真正往前前進，所以我們要時時刻刻，清除掉自己心中的陰影，這樣才能開朗，才能很明朗人世間的事情。」

我有跟Elson聊到你最近壓力大的事情，他跟我提到證嚴法師最近在路邊常看到的廣告看板。是的，堅持的路並不是一條直達的高速公路，其間的路況時而平順時而顛陂，有時候是蜿蜒小徑，有時候是急流險灘，紓解壓力的方法不是沒有，像是找朋友出去大吃大喝一頓犒賞自己，和朋友喝飲料聊聊天，或是做一些日常不會做的事情，跳脫出原本一成不變生活的軌道，對我來說都是很好的方法。

你喜歡運動，以前你的工作壓力可以在運動時獲得紓解，可是你現在的工作就是運動，我想你的壓力並沒有辦法像之前一樣透過運動解決，你有考慮過培養其他的興趣嗎？找個活動可以和其他朋友一起參加的，有時候朋友真的是很好的紓壓管道哩。

你知道嗎，像我現在就很想要學畫畫和彈吉他，不過目前的時間實在是沒有辦法，也許等換工作之後會真的付諸實行，就讓我們一起努力吧。

我要的幸福

擁有我們的事業，一起經營

有時閒一起度假，遊玩

我真的很想學會放開我的固執，和你聊每一天的事

握你的手，親吻你的大臉蛋

烹煮佳肴與你分享

一個屬於你我的天堂

是否

是否我的沉默，已對你來説是一中習慣。。。

是否我的留言，也就是一堆黑白字。。。

是否我的字語，融化在耳邊，不宜為讓。。。

是否我們已對很多事不宜為讓，甚至離索當然。。。

是否我們已被我們的忙碌，忽略的彼此的感受。。。

是否時間沖淡了我們之間的感情。。。

是否這一切，只是我低潮的胡思亂想。。。

現在的我，有多麽的無力，無助，無奈與羡慕
最近的事業與學業帶來壓力， 讓我變得更脆落
好想有你在身旁，也就是一個擁抱，我就很心滿意足
看到別人雙雙對對，有說有笑，心裏有多麽羡慕

到底我該怎麽辦?

dar dar, 我真得很愛你
好愛好愛你

你知道嗎？

Need a hug

On the way home after the class, sitting alone in the train... suddenly feel very tire, both mentally and physically. I felt that I am drained to move on further, maybe a hug is all I need.

Study and work, do I have the time for both? I wonder...

Where is my dar?

sighed...

Pre-mid exam Stress

Left with 3 more days before the mid exam for Physiology... till now not much progress. Start to feel panicking...

Got to find more time tomorrow...

"mood swing again"

dar dar, you have not been doing your homework. Naughty naughty

The day has ended with some achievement. Managed to start on my Sport Biomechanic assignment (left with 3 questions tho). Hope to finish by tomorrow. And guess what, start my first chapter revision on Sport Physiology! What a achievement rite? *smiling face*

The day has been quite warm and humid. Had lunch with Denny and pay a visit to UOB to settle my card issue. My ATM card was retained earlier (long and complicated story...) . The bottomline was that they are able to issue another one for me on the spot. The counterstaff lady was been very nice and sweet. Had a great chat with her.

The day ended with 2 classes at VVO both pump and combat. Great turn out and great response. Start to love this crowd hehee

Wondering how's my dear doing for his day?

LOVE is...

willing to cry infront of the loved one without feeling embarassed
wanting to share the good and bad things happen in the day
accepting the good and the bad behaviour and giving time to change
feeling the loved one by your side and in your mind every now and then.

without him, the life is emptied and meaningless ... ...

miss you...

It has been a while

Finally am back to our blogger. Time has passed real fast. And the old bloggers did bring back all the sweet memories. Thanks to my dear.

I will try to make an effort to contribute what is belonging to us.

For now, my brain abit dead. will continue tomorrow.

Late nite now...

What does the word "dar" means?

我們常常用dar dar來稱呼對方，只因為這是從英文字darling中衍生過來的

dar

v. give; present; deal; produce, yield; cause; perform; say; take; teach; lecture; start, begin; overlook; surrender

偶然間，在字典中查到這個字在西班牙文是give的意思，如果被西班牙人聽到我們用dar dar呼喚對方，心中一可能會浮現這個問題：what are you going to give , huh? ¿qué dáis(dar的第二人稱複數)? 哈哈，那答案可多了，不管你要不要，想要給的東西真的太多了，簡單的說就是把我都給你囉。